Have you ever been in a situation when someone argued a point so passionately, that you felt they wouldn’t ever budge from that decision? They were so adamant that for one minute, you wouldn’t even entertain the possibility that they would change their mind. They were so convincing that you Read more
Have you ever come across a situation and wondered why it’s a big deal? Why can’t they just suck it up and get on with it? Dismissing how someone feels Recently, I’ve realised how easy it is to dismiss other people’s feelings, and make what they’re experiencing appear insignificant. I have witnessed Read more
I’ve been feeling unhappy recently and I want to change that! Do you ever feel the need to protect yourself from negativity?
Grieving the loss of happiness I recently returned from a 5 week trip to India where I pretty much focused on myself. It was all about self improvement. I felt happier, more content, I experienced longer periods of peacefulness, I was compassionate in different ways, and more. I knew it would Read more
Can you name some relationships in which you feel emotion? Does that sound weird? We feel emotions all the time don’t we? I believe that there are some relationships in which we feel emotions more intensely than others. Then there are those, where we can hide, suppress or nullify pretty much, Read more
If you could choose between heartbreak or liberation, which would you choose? Comparing how someone interacts with us and others Can you recall a time when you saw someone whom you like, admire or love, show more affection to someone other than you? Perhaps you saw them treat someone else better? Read more
I wrote a post recently called Do I Change My Tune Quickly? This post is connected to that. I’ve often noticed how our reactions to being reminded about something that we have said can vary so much. Some of the reactions may include:- being taken aback by the fact that the person we Read more
We all have different needs, opinions and expectations right? In this post I’m going to explore how these things vary and the possible consequences of that. Finding a way to keep someone out of your space Someone I knew, we’ll call him Fred; had his niece living with him for a long stay. Read more