I wrote this after overhearing or being present when people I knew were gossiping about who had got divorced or separated from who! As they speculated about why it had happened or whether they thought it was ‘on the cards’ or not; I remember feeling sad and repulsed at the same time. Sad because they were tearing these people apart with their unhelpful chit chat and repulsed because anyone in their family went through something similar, they would not want others gossiping in the same way!
So I did what I often do. I wrote about it and hoped that some readers would question ‘which one they are’ (reference to the last line) and even if they thought about this poem when they heard others talking in the same may; maybe they’d excuse themselves from it and silently protest. Or maybe they’d speak up about why it wasn’t OK; if they indeed thought it wasn’t. Or perhaps have more compassion when faced with situations like these.
Anyway here’s to hoping 🙂
Poor guy. Poor girl!
So much of it happening nowadays. Even in our community.
Do you think it was because he cheated?
I heard that she wasn’t at all educated but he was. That must be it.
Her parents really interfered & his were against them having a love marriage.
They didn’t have any children and after so long. Nobody ever waits that long.
Yes, there must have been issues there.
I heard that he didn’t approve of her drinking. Maybe it got too much for him.
An alternative view. A different conversation.
I feel sad that they are going through all this but I hope that they are better off apart.
I’m sure they considered everything from all angles and have not made the decision lightly.
I wish them luck and hope they achieve what they want in the future.
Which one are YOU?